You Never Call! You Never Write!: A History of the Jewish by Joyce Antler
By Joyce Antler
In You by no means name, You by no means Write, Joyce Antler presents an illuminating and sometimes fun historical past of 1 of the best-known figures in renowned culture--the Jewish mom. even if drawn as self-sacrificing or manipulative, in numerous motion pictures, novels, radio and tv courses, stand-up comedy, and mental and historic stories, she appears to be like as a significant determine, intensely curious about the lives of her childrens. Antler strains the odyssey of this compelling character via many years of yankee tradition. She reminds u . s . a . time while Jewish moms have been fashionable for his or her tenacity and nurturance, as within the early twentieth-century snapshot of the "Yiddishe Mama," a sentimental determine popularized by way of entertainers equivalent to George Jessel, Al Jolson, and Sophie Tucker, and particularly by way of Gertrude Berg, whose amazingly profitable "Molly Goldberg" governed American radio and tv for over 25 years. Antler explains the transformation of this Jewish mom right into a "brassy-voiced, smothering, and shrewish" scourge (in Irving Howe's words), detailing many diversifications in this unfavorable subject matter, from Philip Roth's Portnoy's criticism and Woody Allen's Oedipus Wrecks to tv exhibits comparable to "The Nanny," "Seinfeld," and "Will and Grace." yet she additionally uncovers a brand new counter-narrative, prime feminist students and stand-up comediennes to determine the Jewish mom in confident phrases. constantly revised and reinvented, the Jewish mom turns into in Antler's specialist fingers a different lens with which to check important issues of yankee Jews and the tradition at huge. A pleasure to learn, You by no means name, You by no means Write will satisfaction somebody who has ever recognized or been nurtured through a "Jewish Mother," and it'll be a distinct resource of perception for contemporary mom and dad. As Antler indicates, in lots of methods "we are all Jewish moms" at the present time.
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